Prayer Cycle for the Week of July 19, 2026

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The power of prayer keeps us connected with God and each other.

We invite you to pray daily for yourself, your family, and for our parish family.
Note: The cycle of prayer for parish members is from our Parish Directory.

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Eighth Sunday After Pentecost:  Proper 11

The Collect:

Almighty God, the fountain of all wisdom, you know our necessities before we ask and our ignorance in asking: Have compassion on our weakness, and mercifully give us those things which for our unworthiness we dare not, and for our blindness we cannot ask; through the worthiness of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Macrina of Caesarea, Monastic and Teacher, 379

The names below, "LFF" are celebrations from "Lesser Feasts and Fasts", online 2025. Holy Days are in the Book of Common Prayer.  https://www.episcopalchurch.org/wpcontent/uploads/2025/03/lesser_feasts_and_fasts_-_2024__final_.pdf

Prayers and Gratitude for the Parish

David, Isabel, Gary, Judy, Matthew, Chris, Pam, Ray, Kay, Jane, Daphne, Kissa, Carolyn, Charlotte, Stephen, Harrison, Bill, Gregory, Judy, Tim, Tasha, Rodney, Gloria, Helen, Fran, Milinda, Don, Jill, Dave, and Jeremy. We pray for the continued stability of the Cascadia fault off our coast. Keep our Parish safe from flooding due to tsunamis.  

 Prayers for Friends of St. Benedict

Nancy Jo, Adam, Tina, Amanda, Jess, Tim, Gary, Shane, Marianne, Ron, Kelly, Oran, Judy, Michael, Kevin, and Lauri.

Prayers for Military Deployed in Service to the Nation

Richard

Prayers for the Departed Prayers

Birthdays & Anniversaries 
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In the case of a pastoral care emergency please call the Rector directly
360-485-7281

Monday - July 20 - For Parish Members

Barb
Eleanor

Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Amelia Bloomer, and Sojourner Truth, Social Reformers

Tuesday - July 21 - For Parish Members

Bob
Karen

Maria Skobtsova, Monastic and Martyr, 1945

Wednesday - July 22 - For Parish Members

Felicia
Arianna
Zyllah
Serenity

Thursday - July 23 - For Parish Members

Donald
Chun "Jenny"

John Cassian, Monastic and Theologian, 435

Friday - July 24 - For Parish Members

Bob

Thomas a Kempis, Priest and Mystic, 1471

           Saturday - July 25- For Parish Members

Judy

A Prayer for this Parish and the Nation

As our country celebrates 250 years, and our parish of Lacey is almost 50 years, we give thanks for this place we call home.

Lord God Almighty, who hast made all the peoples of the earth for thy glory, to serve thee in freedom and in peace: Give to the people of our country a zeal for justice and the strength of forbearance, that we may use our liberty in accordance with thy gracious will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who liveth and reigneth with thee and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Sunday - July 19, 2026
8th Sunday of Pentecost
The Parable of the Sower

Word and Sacrament

Worship Services - 8 am and 10:30 am 
We welcome Canon Carla Robinson, 
Canon for Circles of Color, who will preach at both services.

For the members of our parish family that
passed away  this year:

Mary Eberling
Kathleen Bruner
Kristie Louise Gouley
Paul Conroy
Reginald Lutzvick
Judith Rockwell
Carolyn Baldwin

Give to the departed eternal rest;
Let light perpetual shine upon them.

The Rev. Robinson visited last Sunday

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Last Sunday we were blessed with a visit from the Rev. Carla Robinson, the Diocesan Canon for Multicultural Ministries and Community Transformation. She offered the sermon at St. Benedict Episcopal Church at the 8 o’clock and 10:30 services.  

The Rev. Robinson also serves on the Diocesan Creation Care team and has been an eloquent voice on Social and Environmental Justice.

She met with the Vestry and congregation before our service to listen and offer guidance. Before our service she blessed a special bench in our Peace Garden that was given to the Glory of God in memory of Pat Basta.

We are thankful for her visit.

Senior Driving Workshop: August 10

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Monday, August 10, from 8:30 – 3:00 at the Lacey Senior Center on Pacific Ave.  Join our own Gerry Apple in this interactive workshop covering topics such as texting, driving in bad weather, handling emergencies, freeways, reference points, what to do in the case of a collision, and more!

After attending, you will receive a certificate that entitles you to a 5 to 10% discount on your auto insurance for two years.  Several of us are taking this class. 

Rest in Peace: Mary Eberling, Oct. 27, 1938-Jan. 2, 2026

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The burial office for Mary Eberling will be held this weekend.  

The Commendation and Committal is scheduled for, July 3, at 2 o'clock at the St Benedict Columbarium.

The Burial Office and Celebration of Life is set for Sunday, July 5th, at 2 o'clock at the Quinault Auditorium at Panorama.

You are invited to join the Congregation, family, and friends to thank the Lord for a life well lived.

Obituary

Mary Louise Eberling
October 27, 1938 – January 2, 2026

 Mary Louise Eberling, 87, of Lacey, Washington, passed away peacefully on January 2, 2026. Born October 27, 1938, in Tacoma, Washington, Mary spent most of her life rooted in the Tacoma area. She and her husband, Joseph James Eberling, purchased their family home in 1962, where they raised their four children. In 2002, Mary sold her family home and moved to the Panorama community in Lacey, Washington, where she has resided for the past 24 years.

Mary was a dedicated educator for 25 years at Sacajawea Junior High School in Federal Way, Washington, teaching English, French, and Spanish. She was an avid traveler and passionate lover of culture, having hosted numerous overseas student trips and explored many countries throughout Europe and beyond. Her favorite city was Barcelona, and she loved listening to church bells in the towns she visited. She was also known for her love of tea, bowls, cribbage, and blackjack.

Above all else, Mary was most proud of her family. She is survived by her four children: Sharon Ann Eberling; Margaret Jean Anderson (Eberling) and Marvin Anderson; Joseph James Eberling; and Charles David Eberling and Debra Eberling. She is also survived by nine grandchildren: Tara Elizabeth Turner, Ashley Anne Turner, Alyssa Sue Eberling, Mary Kate Elizabeth Hendrickson (Collins), Jaycie Leigh Eberling, Derrick James Eberling, Riley David Eberling, Yanxu Kalani Eberling, and Dunia Indigo Eberling; and four great-grandchildren. She is further survived by many beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, and extended family members, including close friends, all of whom held a special place in her heart. Her beloved cat, Brynner, now resides with family, where he continues to be loved as she loved him.

Mary was preceded in death by her parents, her brothers, her husband Joseph James Eberling, and her grandson Stephen James Gallwas, as well as several cherished pets who were dear to her heart: Mackie, Lola, and Lord Gray.

For many years, Mary was actively involved in her church and the Panorama community, participating in group travel, readers’ theater, and book club. She left a lasting impression on all who knew her through her straightforward honesty, humor, fairness, acceptance, and deep love for others. If you knew Mary, you couldn’t help but love her.

Mary was supported with great compassion in the final chapter of her life by the dedicated caregivers at DaVita in Lacey and the staff at Synergy, with whom she formed close bonds.

A celebration of Mary’s life will be held this summer. Details will be announced by the family.


Almighty God, our Father in heaven, before whom live all who die in the Lord: Receive our sister Mary into the courts of your heavenly dwelling place. Let his heart and soul now ring out in joy to you, O Lord, the living God, and the God of those who live. This we ask through Christ our Lord. Amen.

More Info on Movie Night/Fun with Kids: Aug. 1st

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—Jan Aiken

—Jan Akin

Again,  August 1st. is our opportunity to enjoy the delightful and memorable movie"E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial"  - perhaps a new experience for our younger folks.  

This 1982 hit film is  full of charming characters and 10 year old Elliott who befriends a stranded alien.  Movie begins at 5PM and runs for 115 minutes. 

Snacks and a light dinner will be served during a short intermission.  Lemonade will be available but bring your favorite beverage, if you wish.

A special time before the movie will begin at 3PM for kids. Activities will include active play as well as quieter experiences include a puppet show and fun projects.

Children are welcome to invite friends. We understand some of our kids will be out-of-town and unable to attend, so there is plenty of room for visitors!

I will post a sign up list in order to prepare needed supplies.

Rest in Peace: Paul Conroy, December 5, 1953 – May 31, 2026 

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A Celebration of Life and Christian Burial

June 20, 2026 1:00 o’clock

St. Benedict Episcopal Church
910 Bowker St. SE Lacey, WA 98503  

Paul Richard Conroy, 72, died peacefully at home on May 31, 2026, in Lacey, Washington, of complications from pancreatic cancer. He was born on December 5,1953, in Lackawanna, New York, to Richard G. and Virginia A. (Sieminski) Conroy. 

Paul graduated from Hamburg High School (1971), Mohawk Valley Community College (1973), Fredonia State College (1975), and earned a Master of Arts degree in history from the University of Buffalo (1982). He applied for many jobs in the intelligence field, but the replies were always the same: “Great education but no experience.” When he saw an advertisement for the Army that read, “We don’t require experience, we give it,” he investigated. He joined the enlisted ranks to focus on his chosen field, military intelligence, and was promoted quickly. As a Sergeant First Class, he applied to and was accepted for Warrant Officer Candidate School. 

Paul’s career included deployments to Operation Desert Storm and Operation Iraqi Freedom. He worked around the world, including in Kuwait, Iraq, Panama, Korea, Turkey and Argentina as well as multiple postings in the United States. The Army sent him to the Joint Military Intelligence College on Bolling Air Force Base where he earned a Master of Science degree in Strategic Intelligence in 2003. Paul received numerous Army awards, including the Bronze Star, Joint Meritorious Service Medal, and Joint Service Commendation Medal. Paul retired from the United States Army in 2006 with 22 years of service.  

Paul married Linda A. McKinnie on June 7, 1997, in Phoenix, Arizona. Their first date was a hike through the desert followed by dinner and browsing in a bookstore. Paul died one week before their 29th wedding anniversary.  

Paul’s dedication to service didn’t end when he left the military. He led the acolyte team at St. Benedict Episcopal church for 15 years and was a member of Lacey Sunrise Lions for 12 years. He regularly volunteered at the Lacey Eyeglass Recycling Center. His other focuses with the Lions were on the third-grade dictionary project and the scholarship committee. In 2025, Paul was awarded the Melvin Jones Fellowship, the highest form of recognition for outstanding individuals within the Lions Club.  

Paul never stopped learning and reading extensively in history – especially military history. He also enjoyed reading science fiction and fantasy. He was a proponent of health through physical fitness; he began running cross-country track in high school and kept running until recently. He was a lifelong baseball fan (Linda and Paul went to a major league baseball game on their honeymoon) and hockey fan (despite his poor health; he attended a Seattle Kraken game in March). In recent years, he became interested in rugby and professional bicycling. Paul loved dogs and met many neighbors by walking his and Linda’s succession of four-legged “children,” Kiko, Kelly, Spencer and Abby, twice a day for decades. 

Paul was preceded in death by his parents, Richard and Virginia Conroy, and his brother, Philip. He is survived by his wife, Linda McKinnie; his brothers Carl and Joel; brothers-and sisters-in-law David McKinnie, Carolyn McKinnie (Daniel Runge), Sharon Bodine (Daniel), and Thomas McKinnie; and three nieces and three nephews.  

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Lacey Sunrise Lions.  

 
 

The Book Club is reading the book: "Liturgies for Resisting Empire"

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The Wednesday Morning Book Group is reading the book:  Liturgies for Resisting Empire: Seeking Community, Belonging, and Peace in a Dehumanizing World by Kat Armas. We are discussing Liturgies for Resisting Empire at our 11:00 am Zoom meetings.

If you’re new to the group and wish to join us, please send me an email, and I’ll send you a link to the meeting.  
Send the email to Anne Metzler at annieg426@gmail.com . 

 

Episcopal News Service

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The Episcopal News Service (ENS) has been added to the St. Benedict Web Site for your convenience.  It is a successor to the bi-weekly paper, Episcopal News, that ran from 1835 to 1937. Episcopal News Service  offers in-depth reporting of local, regional, national and international news for Episcopalians and others interested in the church’s mission and ministry. Episcopal News Service is the official news source of the Episcopal Church.

The link will be posted each week for your easy access.  We hope that you find this new service helpful, click on the link below. 

episcopal news service

Flowers at St. Benedict

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Kathy presents the beautiful flowers and creativity of Sharon.

Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: yet I say unto you, that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.-Matt 6:29

Flowers remind us of the glory and abundance of the Lord's Creation and our call to be good stewards of the beauty around us.  We are blessed by the generosity of parishioners who provide the Church with flowers and greenery.  Sharon Lochner provides the arrangements with the support of the Church Sacristan Nancy Zabel.  

Don't Flush "Flushable" Wipes!

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Every three years, Thurston County requires that we have our on-site septic system inspected, which was done recently.  The good news is we passed the inspection.  The concerning news is that there were several "wipes" products in the tank.  While these products are marketed as "flushable," they are the bane of municipal sewers as they don't break down and have to be removed from the sewage stream and sent to a landfill.  

As the Vestry considers replacing the septic tank with a sewer connection, wipes result in a VERY expensive pump repair bill.  Let's start now.  Thank you for your help.

- Norman Gregory, Junior Warden

Remember our New Mailing Address!

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Please remember that the mailing address for St. Benedict now matches our street address: 910 Bowker St SE, Lacey, Washington 98503.  We are finding that mail forwarded from our old PO Box is getting delayed.

If you have mailed something to the Church and haven't gotten confirmation that it has arrived, please call the Church Office and let us know, 360-456-2240.

Thank you for your help.

-Norman Gregory, Junior Warden.